QUESTIONS FOR SOMEONE IN LATE STAGES OF LIFE; PLEASE EDIT TOTALLY ALL QUESTIONS OR DONT ASK THEM: YOU ARE IN CHARGE. THESE ARE MY UN-EDUCATED AND UN-TAUGHT ATTEMPTS AT TRYING TO BE OF HHELP.

 QUESTIONS FOR SOMEONE  IN LATE STAGES OF LIFE; PLEASE EDIT TOTALLY ALL QUESTIONS OR DONT ASK THEM:  YOU ARE IN CHARGE. THESE ARE MY UN-EDUCATED AND UN-TAUGHT ATTEMPTS AT TRYING TO BE OF HHELP.

1. MOM/DAD/FRIEND  HOW ARE YOU FEELING?
2. WHAT DO YOU WANT  NOW? IS YOUR LIFE SATISFYING ENOUGH? WHAT WOULD HELP YOU HAVE A BETTER QUALITY LIFE IF THESE TIMES ARE NOT SATISFACTORY FOR YOU?
3. IS THERE ANYTHING THAT WE NEED TO BE DOING FOR YOU?
4. DO YOU WANT TO TALK ABOUT ANYTHING THAT HAS BEEN ON YOUR MIND?
5. ARE YOU THINKING ABOUT DYING?
6. HAVE YOU FINISHED YOUR WORK/TIME/LIFE HERE?
7. DO YOU WANT OUR PERMISSION FOR YOU TO LEAVE? FOR YOU TO DIE?  HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT DYING?  
8. DO YOU WISH A RABBI/PRIEST/FRIEND/ANIMAL TO VISIT YOU OR THE CHAPLIN HERE?
9. WE WILL MISS YOU WHEN YOU DO LEAVE BUT WE WILL BE  OK,  DONT WORRY.
10. DO YOU HAVE ANY UNFINISHED BUSINESS? CAN A COUNSELOR OR YOUR CHILDREN HELP YOU WITH THAT?
11. ANYTHING ELSE   MOM/DAD/SISTER/BROTHER/FRIEND?
12.  SHALL I HOLD YOUR FEET?  HANDS? OR JUST SIT HERE? STAND HERE? OR LEAVE THE ROOM?   WHAT DO YOU NEED WITH AND FROM ME? I AM HERE FOR YOU AND  WOULD APPRECIATE YOUR HELPING ME KNOW HOW TO BE WITH YOU. I LOVE YOU.  I LOVE YOU. I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU.